When I hear environment and type 1 diabetes I think sun exposure. There is a huge link between vitamin D adequacy and T1DM. Check it out...
http://cancer.ucsd.edu/aboutus/news/stories/VitD_Diabetes.asp
In this new study, the researchers found that populations living at or near the equator, where there is abundant sunshine (and ultraviolet B irradiance) have low incidence rates of type 1 diabetes. Conversely, populations at higher latitudes, where available sunlight is scarcer, have higher incidence rates. These findings add new support to the concept of a role of vitamin D in reducing risk of this disease.
“This is the first study, to our knowledge, to show that higher serum levels of vitamin D are associated with reduced incidence rates of type 1 diabetes worldwide,” said Cedric F. Garland, Dr. P.H., professor of Family and Preventive Medicine in the UCSD School of Medicine, and member of the Moores UCSD Cancer Center.
“This research suggests that childhood type 1 diabetes may be preventable with a modest intake of vitamin D3 (1000 IU/day) for children, ideally with 5 to 10 minutes of sunlight around noontime, when good weather allows,” said Garland. “Infants less than a year old should not be given more than 400 IU per day without consulting a doctor. Hats and dark glasses are a good idea to wear when in the sun at any age, and can be used if the child will tolerate them.”
Perhaps the main thing wasn't what happened in the womb, but maybe it was that you all were in an area that wasn't getting enough sun (-> vitamin D). Most likely, it was a combination of a LOT of things... but it's very interesting how everything together seemed to have triggerred all of you in similar manners.