Hi @khurt, I’m Joe and I am both a member and a kind of assistant moderator for “Adults” and “Men Only”
The set up for T1N doesn’t really allow us to keep something like Men Only hidden, so it has been accepted that any member could potentially look over the conversations in any forum, but in this forum we have an understanding that unless otherwise noted, it would likely be inappropriate for women to comment on posts in the Men Only. If you look at the posts, it’s pretty rare for women to discuss or comment. Similarly, there’s nothing stopping you from viewing conversations in the Women Only forum but we would ask you not to post or comment in that area.
If you are referring to something specific, please let me know and I can take care of it.